“If there is any one secret of success, it lies in the ability to get the other person’s point of view and see things from his angle as well as your own.” – Henry Ford
Empathy is the emotional process that builds connection between people. It is a state of perceiving and relating to another person’s feelings and needs without blaming them, giving advice or trying to fix their situation.
To empathise and understand another individual is an intuitive act where you give complete attention to someone else’s feelings and experience and momentarily suspend your own issues and judgements.
Empathy is a translation of the German term Einfühlung, meaning to feel as one with. It implies sharing the load, or “walking a mile in someone else’s shoes”, in order to appropriately understand the other person’s perspective. This can take time and patience.
It is also a useful skill to be able to practice taking on another’s perspective. On occasions you may feel that your perspective is the only viewpoint available, however this is simply not true. Educate and condition your mind to be more open to the perspectives of others and immerse yourself in a different viewpoint. Not only will this improve your ability to be more empathetic it will help you to learn and grow as a person.
There are many ways that you can be more empathetic and here are three useful tips:
When you show deep empathy towards others not only does it help them to feel safer and happier, it will also help you to become a more compassionate and caring person.
“People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” – Bonnie Jean Wasmund
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